Meet James
James, a devoted father, had always been deeply involved in his children’s lives: helping with homework, cheering at soccer games, and tucking them in at night. But after a painful divorce, everything felt uncertain.
His ex-wife began limiting his visitation, and James didn’t know what his legal rights were as a parent. He feared the most devastating outcome of all: losing the bond with his kids.
Looking for Help
With Administer Justice...
A friend referred James to a Gospel Justice Center, where a volunteer attorney explained custody laws and helped him draft a plan to file for visitation.
The church also connected him with mentors and resources that encouraged healthier communication with his ex-wife. Supported both legally and relationally, James took steps toward restoring visitation and repairing his co-parenting relationship.
On his own...
James tried to represent himself in court but was quickly overwhelmed by confusing paperwork, deadlines, and legal terms.
He left the courthouse feeling unheard, frustrated, and even more discouraged about his future as a father. With no support network, his relationship with his ex remained tense and hostile.
The Next Steps
With Administer Justice...
The legal team provided James with a clear, step-by-step plan for how to file a motion for visitation.
They also encouraged him to keep his communication respectful and legal, protecting both his relationship with his children and opening the door to a more cooperative dynamic with his ex-wife.
On his own...
James didn’t know how to move forward. Without guidance, he hesitated to act and allowed fear to grow.
As time passed, he became more distant from his kids and increasingly bitter toward his ex-wife, deepening the divide.
A Turning Point
With Administer Justice...
Equipped with the right forms and support, James filed his motion on time and began the process of restoring his visitation rights.
Alongside this legal progress, his church community continued to walk with him providing accountability, encouragement, and resources to help him communicate in healthier ways for the sake of his relationships.
On his own...
Discouraged by repeated arguments and feeling defeated, James eventually stopped trying.
Another painful conversation with his ex was the breaking point, and he withdrew, leaving his children confused and hurt by his absence.
The Difference it Made
With Administer Justice...
Today, James sees his kids regularly. And while his marriage wasn’t restored, his relationship with his ex-wife is slowly healing, marked by greater respect and cooperation in parenting, thanks to the support he received through the church.
James feels like a whole, engaged father again, and his children know they are loved and secure.
On his own...
James became increasingly isolated, carrying deep resentment and heartbreak.
His relationship with his ex-wife remained fractured, and he believes the system failed him. In the end, his children missed out on the presence of a loving father and the stability of parents working together.
